Part 17: How to Create Your New Normal

ByCharlie Harary May 22, 2023May 22, 2023

May 22, 2023 9:34 pm

On today’s episode, Charlie explains that when you’re making changes in your life, you must take stock of the environment that brought you to where you are in the first place, and make sure to be around people who are doing what you want to be doing.

The theory of Mimetic desire by Renee Gerard teaches that human beings create their desires based on what they see in the culture around them. Which means our desires may not even be our own! It might be that what we desire is based on something we see in our society, which all of a sudden we want. All of a sudden we find ourselves needing the thing we may not have even known existed before we saw it! Ie- the world of fashion!

Therefore, the environment we put ourselves into is critical!

Charlie explains:
-The importance of being connected to something which creates an environment in which your new habit is normal, like a workout buddy
-The danger of falling back into your old neural connections
-Why it might benefit you to make your new habit public

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Charlie Harary

Charlie is driven by the belief that the potential for greatness resides within every person. By integrating wisdom found in science, psychology and spirituality, each person can live a more fulfilling life and, in turn, impact the world.

Leveraging his unique expertise on personal success and social impact, Charlie has become a sought after speaker featured each year by almost 100 different organizations, businesses, conventions, and academic institutions.

The principles Charlie shares are not simply theory. They are the same principles he has used to successfully pursue his own impact in the world. He is recognized as a leading social entrepreneur and shares strategies for personal achievement and organizational excellence as a Clinical Professor of Management and Entrepreneurship at the Syms School of Business in Yeshiva University.

Charlie co-founded H3 & Company, a multimillion dollar venture capital and advisory firm. Previously, he was the First Vice President and legal counsel at RXR Realty, a billion dollar real estate firm in New York. Prior to that, Charlie worked as an associate at Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison and Davis Polk & Wardwell. Charlie received his law degree from Columbia University where he was awarded the James Kent Scholar and the Harlan Fiske Stone Scholar.